You’re upset because of your team’s culture. A culture is built on one simple premise: “People like us do things like this.” For example:
People like us improve our GPA every semester.
People like us do everything we can to prepare to win.
People like us don’t gossip about our teammates.
Very often, a culture is communicated by the coach (boss/leader/CEO/etc.), but it takes at least one athlete (employee/captain/etc.) to spread the culture.